Carlsbad Family Law Attorneys



What to Expect at Trial

Family Court if Your Case Goes to Trial

If you find yourself unable to settle your divorce or other family law case out of the courtroom then you will most likely end up in front of a judge with the burden of presenting your case and potentially opposing claims made by your husband or wife. In most cases you have one shot to get it right so you want to make sure that your case is presented clearly and completely and in a manner that influences the result that you seek.

Hire an Experienced Divorce Lawyer

A good divorce lawyer is effective in the courtroom because she knows what the judge wants to hear and how to deliver your particular case so that the result that you seek makes sense to the family law judge. Effective divorce lawyers are effective because they have experience in front of family court judges. Different judges have different styles of running the courtroom.  They often have different opinions with respect to how the law should be interpreted.

The Divorce Lawyers at Griffith, Young & Lass have years of experience and have appeared at hundreds of hearings in front of all sitting judges. They practice exclusively in family law and attend regular conferences presented by San Diego Family Court judges.

Have Realistic Expectations 

The most important thing to keep in mind when presenting a case to a family law judge is that your position must be realistic. Good judges have an ability to see through the smoke screen of a disingenuous argument and they do not appreciate it. Your impression on your family court judge at the very first hearing may have a lasting influence on rulings made in your case for many years to come and you need for that impression to be a good one.

An honest divorce lawyer looking out for your best interests will give you realistic expectations irrespective of your reaction to them. It is common for less experienced or dishonest divorce lawyers to give their clients unrealistic expectations just to milk the case for additional attorney’s fees. Don’t fall into this trap. It is usually a good idea to get a second opinion in a family law case if your attorney tells you that he can get you whatever you want.

Be Prepared

Preparation is the number one key to success in family court. This means ensuring that all of the information that you want the judge to hear and see is ready to be properly presented to the court. If you hire an attorney then she will know the proper procedures for the presentation of evidence. However, it is up to you to ensure that you let your lawyer know what you have to offer. Much of preparation includes meeting with your divorce lawyer and discussing the relevant issues and what kinds of evidence might be beneficial to your case. Relevant evidence could include documents, testimony, pictures, videos, etc.. Evidence is king in court.  Sending an attorney into court without evidence is like sending a soldier to war without a sword. The best policy is to give your lawyer everything that you have and let her decide what should be used and what should be left out.

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Meet Our Team 

Honest. Fearless. Bold.
  • John N. Griffith, Esq., CFLS
  • Catie E. Young, Esq., CFLS
  • Amy J. Lass, Esq., CFLS
  • Shirin Asgari, Esq.
  • Eric Cowdery, Esq.
  • Jeffrey Wittliff, Esq.
  • Joshua Yee, Esq.
  • Shaudi Malekzadeh, Esq.
  • John N. Griffith, Esq., CFLS John N. Griffith, Esq., CFLS

    Partner

    John Griffith has practiced exclusively in the area of family law since 2009. John is a Certified Family Law Specialist certified as an expert in the area of family law by the California Board of Legal Specialization. Prior to opening Griffith, Young & Lass, he worked as the managing partner of one of the largest family law firms in North County San Diego.
    John N. Griffith, Esq., CFLS Photo
  • Catie E. Young, Esq., CFLS Catie E. Young, Esq., CFLS

    Partner

    Catie E. Young excels in child custody cases and move-away trials. She has a unique approach to child custody cases and clients of Griffith, Young & Lass tend to gravitate toward her in these cases. Since joining the firm, she has continuously brought her zeal and compassion to representing clients in child custody and domestic violence cases, and in December 2011, she became a partner at Griffith, Young & Lass.
    Catie E. Young, Esq., CFLS Photo
  • Amy J. Lass, Esq., CFLS Amy J. Lass, Esq., CFLS

    Partner

    Amy Lass, a certified family law specialist, was born in New York and raised in San Diego, California. Amy graduated from Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo in 2003 with a B.S. in Economics with a concentration in Enterprise Accounting. Amy went on to earn her law degree from Thomas Jefferson School of Law and graduated cum laude in 2006.
    Amy J. Lass, Esq., CFLS Photo
  • Shirin Asgari, Esq. Shirin Asgari, Esq.

    Associate

    Attorney Shirin Asgari has a broad spectrum of legal experience and has handled matters in family law, criminal law, business law, and national security law. Currently, she focuses on family law matters and is a strong advocate for the rights of her clients. She dedicates time and attention to the needs of each client and the unique circumstances their case presents.
    Shirin  Asgari, Esq. Photo
  • Eric Cowdery, Esq. Eric Cowdery, Esq.

    Associate

    Eric Cowdery earned his bachelor’s and Master’s degrees before earning his JD from Golden Gate University as part of the Honors Lawyering Program. He was admitted to the California Bar Association in 2013 and has been working diligently in the field ever since. Taking a personalized approach to each case, Eric Cowdery is committed to working with clients to help them through the often confusing and complex legal process of divorce.

    Eric  Cowdery, Esq. Photo
  • Jeffrey Wittliff, Esq. Jeffrey Wittliff, Esq.

    Associate

    Jeffrey Whittliff is extremely attentive to his cases and believes in thorough preparation and the value of regular client communication. Behind the scenes, he has an extensive background in research related to all areas of family law, propounding discovery when necessary, and negotiation to settle cases with opposing parties.
    Jeffrey  Wittliff, Esq. Photo
  • Joshua Yee, Esq. Joshua Yee, Esq.

    Associate

    Attorney Joshua Yeereceived his Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science, from the University of California, San Diego. Joshua went on to receive his Juris Doctor degree from University of San Francisco. His experience working with a local Certified Family Law Specialist solidified his desire to become a family law attorney. Since becoming an attorney, Josh has exclusively practiced in family law.
    Joshua  Yee, Esq. Photo
  • Shaudi Malekzadeh, Esq. Shaudi Malekzadeh, Esq.

    Associate

    Shaudi Malekzadeh is a Carlsbad family law attorney at Griffith, Young & Lass, advocating for the rights and interests of Southern California families in a variety of family law cases, such as child custody, alimony, spousal support, and the division of community property. She is committed to delivering effective legal representation to our clients, aggressively advocating for their legal rights, and offering compassionate legal advice.
    Shaudi  Malekzadeh, Esq. Photo

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    From case planning to preparation, to superior courtroom presence, our clients can be sure that they will walk into the Courtroom prepared and with the best chance of success.

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    Our representation is tailored to the unique circumstances of each client. We deploy the GYL strategic case trajectory dynamic to ensure the best chance at success at the most reasonable cost. 

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    We don't believe in wasting our client's time and money. Helping people is what drives us to excel at our craft. We first identify the goals and interests of each client, we then develop an efficient and effective case plan aimed at achieving those goals.

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    We believe in a responsible and ethical practice and stick to our values regardless of the situation. We're transparent and don't just tell our clients what they want to hear, unless it's what we believe, even if it may deter them from moving forward. We stand by our team's expertise and will always be upfront and honest with our clients. 

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